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[What You Don’t Know About About Success And The Outcome]



We all have goals, things we want to achieve in our lives, what you would call outcomes. When we achieve those goals and reach those outcomes we give ourselves a pat on the back and we feel successful. But what about the rest of the time? What about the minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or even years where you haven’t reached the goal, where you haven’t achieved the desired outcome? See we tend to attach our feelings of success to the outcome. We say things like “When I have X, then I’ll be successful”, “When I have completed Y, then I will be successful” or “Once I can do Z, then I will be successful”. The problem with this is that it means we spend majority of our time feeling unsuccessful, which, when you thing about it, is actually quite stressful. When you chase success, it often only leads to stress. Success is the “one day when” idea. But for every other day that isn’t “one day when”, we tell ourselves we aren’t successful, we haven’t made it yet, we haven’t proved ourselves worthy. Which leaves a rather bitter taste in our mouths. Processes on the other hand, they are worth chasing. See process produces progress and progress IS success. So if you aren’t experiencing the success you would like, perhaps it’s because you aren’t pursuing a process? Just a thought. Truth, Joy, Love TJ ✌🏻


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