[What You Believe Will ALWAYS Detremine How You Behave]
We each have many beliefs about many aspects of life and we may agree or disagree with one another around our beliefs.
Our beliefs are an integral part of who we are and how we be.
To paraphrase Henry Ford.
“If you believe you can or believe you can’t, you are right”.
When you boil it all down the ease, elegance and enjoyment of the pursuit of any goal will ALWAYS be determined and dictated by what you believe.
It is astonishingly difficult to gift yourself the time, space and energy YOU need to be happy if you believe the happiness of others comes above your own.
It is a considerably challenging to put your needs and desires first if you believe yourself to be as unsubstantial, unimportant and unworthy.
And it is especially arduous to show yourself the love and respect you deserve if you are holding on tightly to the belief that you are undeserving or love and respect of any kind.
If you belief your happiness is less important than others, you will behave accordingly by bending over backwards to please others.
If you believe you are unsubstantial, unimportant and unworthy you will behave accordingly by allowing others to direct and decree what you want and who you should be.
If you believe are undeserving of love and respect you will behave accordingly by rejecting, disconnecting and neglecting yourself and your needs.
What you believe will ALWAYS determine how you behave.
And how you behave will ALWAYS reflect what you believe.
To change a behaviour, it is vital that you asses the belief that sponsors it.
How do you BEHAVE? And therefore, what DO you believe?
Truth, Joy, Love
P.s. Over in the tribe I will be opening more conversations about how we can shift our beliefs to align with our dreams and desires.
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